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Almost every portrait photographer hears some version of the same sentence.

“I don’t know how to pose.”

Sometimes it comes out as a joke.

“I’m terrible in photos.”

“I’m awkward.”

“You’re going to have to tell me everything.”

I usually hear it within the first few minutes of a session.

And I don’t see it as a problem.

Most people are not supposed to know how to pose.

They are not models. They do not spend their week thinking about where to put their hands, how far to turn their shoulders, or what their face looks like from one particular angle.

That is part of my job.

The more useful question is not whether you know how to pose.

It is whether your photographer knows how to direct someone who doesn’t.

You do not need to learn poses before your portrait session

If you are nervous about an upcoming portrait session, you may be tempted to prepare by studying poses.

You save photographs.

You practice angles in the mirror.

You try to figure out your “good side.”

That can be useful if it helps you understand the kind of photographs you like.

But I would not turn it into homework.

Knowing five poses does not necessarily make you more comfortable once there is a camera in front of you.

And trying to remember them can create a different problem: now you are thinking about the photograph before I have even made it.

I would rather you arrive as yourself and let me give you something clear to do.

That is where I normally begin.

During the first few minutes, I remove decisions

One of the least useful things I could say to a nervous client is:

“Just do whatever feels natural.”

It sounds friendly.

But think about what I have actually asked.

You are already uncomfortable because you do not know what to do, and now I have asked you to invent something that looks natural while a camera is pointed at you.

That is a lot of pressure disguised as freedom.

So at the beginning of a portrait session, I do almost the opposite.

I remove decisions.

Stand here.

Turn slightly this way.

Put your weight on this leg.

Bring your shoulder toward me.

Look here.

Good.

That may be enough for the first photograph.

I am not trying to make the most ambitious portrait of the day in the first three minutes.

I am trying to give you something you can do successfully.

The first objective is not creativity.

It is confidence.

I start with the body before worrying about small details

When somebody already feels self-conscious, correcting ten tiny things usually makes the situation worse.

Move that finger.

Lower your chin.

Turn your wrist.

Relax your mouth.

Move your elbow.

Now the client has become a checklist.

So I usually start with larger movements.

Turn.

Shift your weight.

Take a step.

Lean against the wall.

Put one hand in your pocket.

Cross your arms.

These are actions people already understand.

Once the general position works, I can refine it.

A small adjustment to the hand makes much more sense when the client is already comfortable with what the rest of the body is doing.

The order matters.

Your hands are probably not the problem you think they are

When people say they do not know how to pose, very often what they mean is:

“I have no idea what to do with my hands.”

Hands become strangely noticeable once a camera appears.

People squeeze their fingers together.

They press their arms against their body.

A hand becomes completely flat against a leg.

Someone makes a fist without realizing it.

The obvious instruction would be:

“Relax your hand.”

But now I have made you think even more about the hand.

Instead, I normally give it a reason to be somewhere.

Adjust your sleeve.

Hold the edge of the dress.

Put your thumb in the pocket.

Touch your hair.

Hold the jacket.

Rest your hand here.

A hand doing something usually feels different from a hand that has simply been positioned for a photograph.

This is a principle I use throughout a session.

When possible, I replace correction with action.

Movement solves more than people expect

Nervousness is often easiest to see when someone becomes very still.

The feet stop moving.

The knees lock.

The shoulders rise.

The arms stay close to the body.

The person is trying so hard to stand correctly that the body no longer looks comfortable.

That is when movement becomes useful.

Walk toward me.

Turn away.

Come back.

Take two steps and stop.

Lean against something.

Move the jacket.

Movement gives your attention somewhere else to go.

You are no longer standing in front of me asking yourself, “What am I supposed to look like?”

You are doing something.

That distinction can completely change a portrait.

I don’t expect you to smile on command

A forced smile is often not really a smile problem.

It is a timing problem.

The camera comes up.

The smile switches on.

Then the person holds it.

And holds it.

After several seconds, the mouth is smiling but the rest of the face is no longer participating.

I would rather let that expression go.

If I need to adjust something, you do not need to keep smiling while I do it.

Sometimes we start with a neutral expression.

Sometimes I keep talking while I photograph.

Sometimes I wait.

Then you respond to something, the expression changes for a fraction of a second, and that is the photograph.

I am much more interested in a smile that happens than one that has been waiting for me.

You may not realize that you’re holding your breath

I see this occasionally.

Someone gets into position.

I raise the camera.

And for a second, everything stops.

The chest barely moves.

The face becomes more rigid.

The person is waiting for the shutter as though the photograph were a test they need to pass.

Usually, I do not make a big issue out of it.

I keep talking.

I give them an action.

I lower the camera again.

We move.

If I need to say anything, it may be as simple as:

“Take a breath.”

Not because breathing is a secret posing technique.

Sometimes a person just needs permission to stop performing for a second.

Standing perfectly straight is not always the answer

People have been told to stand up straight for photographs since childhood.

So when the portrait session starts, they stand very straight.

Feet parallel.

Knees locked.

Arms at the sides.

Chest forward.

It can make someone look more formal than confident.

Rather than correcting five parts of the body individually, I often create some asymmetry.

Put the weight on one leg.

Move one foot.

Turn your shoulders.

Give one hand something to do.

Lean slightly.

The goal is not poor posture.

It is simply to stop treating the body as though posing means freezing it into perfect symmetry.

If you keep asking “What do I do?” that’s okay

Some clients ask this repeatedly at the beginning.

“What do I do?”

“Where do I look?”

“What about my hands?”

“Is this right?”

I do not interpret those questions as a lack of ability.

What I hear is:

“Tell me I am doing this correctly.”

So early in a session, I communicate more.

Yes.

Stay there.

Exactly.

Turn slightly.

Good.

That feedback matters.

If someone already believes they are bad in photographs, a photographer standing silently behind a camera can feel like bad news.

Later, I can become quieter.

By then, the client usually understands the process.

They no longer need confirmation after every movement.

I try not to correct five things at once

This matters more than knowing a long list of poses.

Imagine I tell you:

“Lower your shoulder, move your hand, bring your chin down, turn your hips, and relax your fingers.”

Every instruction may be technically correct.

Together, they are terrible.

Now you are trying to operate your body like a machine with five controls.

So I prioritize.

One correction.

Then another if we need it.

If the expression is excellent, maybe the hand does not need to be perfect.

If we need a major change in body position, I fix that before thinking about fingers.

A portrait becomes stronger gradually without making the person feel as though they are continuously doing something wrong.

Sometimes I need to move, not you

This is important because an awkward photograph is not automatically the subject’s fault.

Sometimes I am standing in the wrong place.

My angle may not be helping.

The light may work better if I move.

The relationship between the background and the subject may change completely if I take one step sideways.

It would be easy to keep directing the client:

Turn more.

Move your shoulder.

Change your face.

But sometimes the better solution is for me to move.

A portrait session should not become an hour of blaming the person in front of the camera for every photograph that does not work.

The photographer is making decisions too.

I don’t want the session to feel like a critique

There is a difference between directing someone and evaluating them.

If I see tension, telling you:

“You look tense”

does not give you much useful information.

It may simply confirm the thing you were already worried about.

So I try to give directions that lead toward the solution instead.

Instead of:

“Your arm looks awkward,”

I can tell you where to move it.

Instead of:

“You look stiff,”

I can ask you to walk.

Instead of describing what is wrong, I would rather give you something useful to do next.

That keeps the session moving forward.

Seeing one good photograph can change everything

One of the simplest things I can do early in a session is show you a photograph that is working.

Not fifty photographs.

One.

This can be surprisingly important.

Someone may arrive convinced that they are not photogenic.

They follow a few directions.

Then they see themselves on the back of the camera and realize:

This is working.

After that, the dynamic often changes.

If I ask for another small adjustment, there is less doubt behind it.

You have already seen why I am asking.

The camera stops feeling like evidence that something is wrong with you.

Now there is evidence that the process can work.

The amount of direction should change during the session

This is one of the most important parts of how I photograph people.

At the beginning, my instructions may be very specific.

Stand here.

Turn your body.

Move this foot.

Look toward me.

Later, the instruction becomes:

Walk toward me.

Then:

Do it again, a little slower.

Then:

Turn and come back.

Eventually:

Keep moving.

The instructions get shorter because we have developed a language.

You know what I mean when I ask you to shift your weight.

You understand where the light is coming from.

You stop freezing the instant you think the photograph is finished.

We stop moving from Pose A to Pose B to Pose C.

We begin photographing the transitions.

Those transitions are often where some of my favorite portraits happen.

Sometimes the photograph happens after the pose

There is usually a moment when somebody assumes the picture is finished.

They drop the pose.

They look away.

They laugh.

They adjust a jacket.

They take a breath.

Sometimes that is the photograph.

This is one reason I continue watching after an instruction.

If I ask someone to turn and they go too far, I may photograph them coming back.

If I ask someone to walk, I am not necessarily waiting for one perfect step.

I am watching the movement.

The photograph I end up choosing may happen before or after the position I originally imagined.

Once someone is comfortable, there are more opportunities for these moments because every shutter click no longer feels like a test.

Natural portraits still involve direction

There is a strange assumption that a photograph is either posed or natural.

In practice, the line is not that clean.

Even when I am barely talking, I am still paying attention to the light, posture, hands, expression, background and where I position myself.

I may wait another second.

I may move instead of moving you.

I may ask for an action rather than a pose.

I may decide not to correct something because the expression matters more.

Natural does not mean accidental.

It often means the direction has become less visible.

You do not need perfect poses in every photograph

As a session develops, I usually become more tolerant of small imperfections.

A piece of hair moves.

A hand lands somewhere I would not have placed it.

The shoulders are not arranged perfectly.

But the expression is right.

The movement works.

The photograph feels like the person.

Correcting everything at that moment might make the pose technically cleaner and the portrait worse.

That is one of the things experience changes.

You learn that the cleanest position is not automatically the strongest photograph.

Sometimes the small imperfection is exactly what keeps the portrait from feeling manufactured.

So how should you prepare if you don’t know how to pose?

Do less than you probably think.

You do not need to memorize a library of poses.

You do not need to spend a week practicing facial expressions.

You do not need to arrive already knowing your perfect angle.

What helps more is choosing clothing you can comfortably move in, telling your photographer if there is something you are concerned about, and bringing references only when they communicate the general feeling you like rather than a list of poses you believe you have to reproduce.

Then give yourself a little time.

The first photographs do not have to be the best photographs.

You are allowed to become comfortable gradually.

That is part of the session.

What if you’re convinced you’re simply not photogenic?

I hear versions of this often.

I do not try to argue with the person.

If you have spent years disliking photographs of yourself, me saying “No, you’re photogenic” probably will not erase that experience.

So I would rather make a photograph.

Then another.

We build evidence instead of having an argument.

The interesting thing is that people often describe themselves differently by the end of a session.

They begin with:

“I have no idea what I’m doing.”

Later, they are walking, turning or changing expressions before I finish giving the direction.

They did not suddenly become models.

They learned what I was asking from them.

And I learned how they naturally move.

You don’t have to arrive knowing how to pose

That may be the most useful thing to understand before your portrait session.

At first, I direct the person.

Then we begin communicating.

Eventually, I can give less instruction and watch more carefully for what happens between the instructions.

My goal is not for you to leave remembering fifty corrections.

Ideally, you remember that it became easier.

One position.

One movement.

One successful photograph.

Then another.

Confidence usually does not appear because someone tells you to look confident.

It appears after you stop worrying so much about whether you are doing everything correctly.

A good portrait session should help you get there.

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If you want studio, outdoor, individual, couple, editorial, creator, or performance portraits, you do not need to arrive knowing a collection of poses.

I will guide you when direction helps, give you room when it does not, and build the session around how you actually respond to the camera.

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